No, I was very close with his father, and friendly with his mother. We spent Tgiving/Xmas with the family. Until the bomb dropped, we spent a lot of time talking about how happy and lucky we were to have built such a life together. Lack of sex was a major problem for him--lack of interest on my part. But he always let it slide, and I was always willing not to talk about it. Major lack of communication, until a willing girl came along, and he went for it. I would really have to say that our sense of happpiness wasn't just surface, despite the tension around sex. He really frequently spoke of his love and our wonderful life.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
