Hang in there Gardener...I can understand what your feeling. I learned two weeks ago that my W mentioned to one of the Retrouvaille counselors that I horrendously emotionally-abused her for the past 12 years. I was so embarrassed. The abuse was so bad that she elected to have two beautiful kids with me? This is simply rewriting history.
Take it for what it's worth...our W's are simply justifying their emotions. Yes, we contributed to the demise of our marriages...but so did our spouses. Let them think and feel what they want...don't take it personally. I'm learning to laugh it all off. We are all going to be just fine...regardless of our situation.
Regards, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
