No one said piecing was gonna be easy...

[sage]

I would wonder if that can be done without a C, but as far as I know Sage's H isn't seeing anyone he is just turning around on his own, and I don't think CJ was regularly seeing anyone either.

Hey guys!

My h hasn't been seeing a C (as pam mentioned) nor have we been to MC. There are times when I wish that we did have that extra resource because I think it would help us see solutions when we get stuck...but we HAVE turned things around by following the DB techniques...Michele sure knows what she's talking about!

Strangely enough...I was talking to MY C a few weeks ago about being concerned that another affair could happen more easily because h hasn't gone to a C and she said....I don't think there's any evidence that counseling prevents affairs from happening....She said she thought that each sitch was different and may need a different set of "tools" to fix things.

Sage