Just catching up after a few days offline, and there's not much I can add except that I know just how you feel. These shocking accusations come out of nowhere and for a while you actually do take them personally and they do hurt.
Glad to see you got lots of good advice.
Thinker
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.