Looking For Help

[Looking_For_Help]

Hello everyone,

I haven't posted in a week or so. I learned last week that my W had an appraiser visit the house. A fried of mine was jogging past our house when he noticed this person. He called me up on November 4 to let me know. I casually brought it up with my W last night that a friend of mine saw a person checking out our house. After dancing around the topic my W finally admitted to this fact. I was playing it very cool the whole time we were discussing this. We actually went on to have a decent conversation about the kids and work afterwards. My W seemed to be lingering around me to talk...even though she was very ill with the flu. Not sure what to make of it.

My W is also still house hunting. Not sure what to make of it or what to do as well. We missed Retrouvaille last week due to my W being out of town on business. I'm not sure if were going to the post session this Sunday. I'm trying to play it all cool.

I have been taking my DB's advice...backing off and not pressuring. Although this has worked from the perspective that my W appears comfortable around me and is talking nicely with me...she's still seems to be progressing at creating a new life for herself.

Any advice or words of encouragement from the peanut gallery? I could really use some help tonight.

Thanks,
LFH