Ok...so after a fairly calm afternoon, I hear from my MIL. She asked how I was doing and if I had heard from H. I told her yes, we had a brief conv a week ago but not since then. SHe talked to him today and he informed her that OW has put her foot down and told H that he cant have any contact with me unless its about a D and any msgs between us she has to see. He has agreed. Im....speechless.
I want to fly over there and rip her hair out and slap him silly. The nerve! Im his WIFE!
My MIL asked me not to hold it against him and to try to stay calm so nobody gets hurt. Excuse me? SHe asked me not to contact him again...huh? because it was causing him problems. umm I havent? He has made contact first. She paused when I told her that. I was ....polite and ended the call.
I am..angry hurt disgusted and shocked. I wish i hadnt answered the dam phone.
