Previously had put my story out there. Relationship had gone south 7 yrs ago with her involved in multiple affairs. Came back together, but never healed. This summer, she said she wants out. Have tried "what works" and less of what doesnt. Talked about counseling, she recc'd mediation.
Without my knowledge, served divorce papers last week Wed. She locked down ALL finances. I had to borrow $ to even hire atty. Still trying to talk to her, but she has hired what 10 attys have describes as "despicable human being" as her lawyer and has fallen under his "spell." Cant seem to get her to talk to me w/o her reversing after she talks to atty. Dead set on ugliness.
I am losing hope. Cant pay bills she has run up. kids do not know whats happening (in theory). Living in hell under same roof. Cant focus at work, cant eat. Losing faith...help.
