Sandy, the guilt thingwe discussed a bit. He said he doenst feel blocked by it. Not wanting to sound arrogant, but he is wrong about that. Sometimes I can FEEL the guilt even when he looks at the kids. Good thing he doesnt seem to feel ashamed and embarassed. I read that shame is really bad and blocks progress. And it's a "superficial" feeling, having nothing to do with core values, just with the loosing face factor. When he apologised to my parents and friends I was shocked. He even seemed a bit "brave" to me, you know what I mean? K
Well to not thow you off... My H did the same.... My C said he was the poster child for reconcillation..... he was very apologetic and still is about the whole thing.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
