Originally Posted By: swimmingupstream
Oh and one more thing..stop being so hard on yourself:) you are doing great! This will take A LOT of time..I look at like weight loss..It took a long time to put it on and it takes a lot of time to take it off...Your marriage did not get this way over night. I am actually GLAD this happened to me because I would have continued to be need person that I was..begging for my H to love me or stay with me..
ABSOLUTELY!

The worst thing that could ever happen to me happened. And it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

Every aspect of my life is better. I have a better relationship with myself, with each of my kids, with my parents, with my friends. I have new friends. I have no fears. I heard from a friend that "Another woman" has been asking about me.....Boost in self esteem! I am sure I will meet her and gain another friend or who knows.....


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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