Interesting convo with W today. We were having lunch and she was telling me about some more drama in her friend at work's life. Her H is really off the deep end.

In the course of the convo W tells me her friend told her more about her H. I've said before how they were both married when they got together and now her H is crazy jealous, etc (there's a surprise huh? An affairage that has trust issues), but now W tells me that early in their marriage, that the H had told a woman he worked with that he was divorced and was going after her when the friend found out about it and that ended that.

I said to W "that doesn't surprise me in the least. When guys are like that, they don't change". W said "I know". I then said "that just confirms for me why he's being this way now. He's either in an EA/PA now, or interested in someone and is trying to justify to himself by demonizing his W". My W said, "I agree".

Ok, gotta run, but thought I'd share that interesting talk.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.