Changing Man

[Gardener]

R2C

First, Sorry about last night. I know it is hard.

A wise man wrote this a couple weeks ago:

The very first decision I made while I was still reading The Four Agreements was to decide to: not take my sitch personally.
None of it.
Not the bomb, not the leaving, not the continued and escalating distancing.
Nor the lies, the rewriting history, editing memories, nor bizarre accusations.
None of it.
I just don't take it personally.
I'm not taking it personally.
I refuse. No more.

What a burden that lifted.

Set healthy boundaries for YOU. Let HER own her anger,lies etc....and remember everything will be OK.

Thanks. I was totally flabbergasted last night, but I don't take it personally. How could I? It is beyond-fantasy fiction.
But has today increased my compassion for her and the deep pain/conflict/fantasy/whatever she is living in.