I met my wife prior to my divorce.
She would be the OW in my first marriage.

We ended the affair and I tried to work on my marriage with my wife. When I left, it was a very short time before I was with her.

Courting? Not really.

Let me make clear, she was not the reason I left, she didn't even make it easier to leave. I was not talking to her. I left for me.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 11/12/09 11:19 PM.

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