I more disagree with Kevin. WAS needs to be accountable, but it's not appropriate, in my opinion, for the kids to be used to do that. Especially young kids. When they are older, they will do it on their own. When they are younger, I don't think it is either parent's place to put them in the "middle". For one thing, it's easy to say, from our point of view, that we are "right". But there is always another point of view.

Anyway, that's some thoughts I have on the subject!