Odog, I think that while you could look at the time left on ch13 as holding you back, you could also look at it as time for you to prepare for this, save some $ in your matress, and to maybe seek out a partner. Certainly time for the economy to improve.

I think that when we glimpse a little sparkle of shiny opportunity to do what we would really love to be doing, it brings our unhappiness in our current sitch into sharper, sometimes unfounded focus. Im not sure if this is the case for you, but I find its definately true for me!


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...