You just need to keep doing what you think is best for you. Through my whole ordeal I have gone against the "process" because it did not work for me and I did not feel right in the decision so it was about me. I have had to deal with criticism from friends, family, and many other places, but once again I am doing what is best for ME and S. The Key is doing what YOU think is best for YOU and D's not what anyone else says. If you are comfortable with your decision then it will make you stronger and get towards happy. If you are not comfortable then you can change your decision to get to something else you are comfortable with.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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