On the one hand, that would certainly kill any chances at all of having your wife come back. On the other, needing to run to another woman right away may show that you need some counselling. Is there a possibility of some type of codependence here?

Stop being so needy and focus on yourself. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;