I would pronounce that to her, as well. "STBXW, based on your resent attempts to bastardize our sex life with your fantastic claim that I abused you, I have decided to restrict our meetings to public places or have a third party in the room."
I heard and followed this same advise (without pronouncing it to MsR2C, I just changed my behavior) way early on in my sitch. Avoid any sitch where false accusations are possible.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712