"The past is history, the future is a mystery and right now is a gift. That is why they call it the present." - Kung Fu Panda

Stay in the present. What is done is done. SO WHAT/NOW WHAT.

Keep focusing on positive change to you. Take your focus off of HIM and put it on YOU. Go do things that that make YOU happy.

This is a time in the R to reduce negative emotions. Take a vacation from the R to allow this to happen.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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