Of ocurse not all of it was his fault. But you acknowledged your part, did you not? You wanted to fight it out, did you not? THAT, is getting it right. Throwing your hands up in the air and saying "ehhh, piss on it, this doesn't work" and walking away without even trying for a "better" R with someone else, is being weak, cowardly and wrong.

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Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11