I hope you are wrong. Because ignoring it, wont change anything. Probably has the oposite effect. I did that last year, when I came back from NY and could feel something had shifted, avoided talking to him, remember?
I believe I have heard time and again around here, keep moving forward. If there is something they want you to know, they need to catch up to you and let you know it. Something like that anyway...
don't worry guys...i will not fall for that again..... the page has been turned, the chapter has ended....... choices have been made and now .... well we all have to live with the consequences...me, D8 and XW. i think i am detached enough to keep walking.....
You kill me Mike :-)! I just listen mainly. Throw in a few ideas. Do I enjoy it? I am not sure you can call it enjoyment. In spite of all the stuff she pulled, i still have her best interest at heart. I guess like any other person / friend. that's the kind of guy I am. Nobody is perfect. I remember a while back you guys used to tell me to calm down, be positive, forgive, loose the anger, detach etc.etc. Well...I am there....it took a while but I can honestly say I have arrived. So...even though I tell her that perhaps she should be taking her good news elsewhere, something inside feels good about getting the first call. Tough to explain not sure I understand it myself...I am happy for her. Does that mean we are not getting divorced? No...it means that I took the high road and was true to who i really am. She is the one who strayed and she has to live with it. I have nothing (ok very little) to be ashamed of or unhappy about including the way I have acted towards her, her family, our friends etc. All above and beyond reproach....I feel good about that. Ok so all that and $1.50 may get me a small regular coffee!
