how about you respond to her badgering Instant Messages with:
"Pooky, there is something I need to get off my chest. I have a girlfriend."
She is treating you like a gay friend, and you are allowing it.
SM, I guess I didn't think about her treating me in that way. I don't have a girlfriend. And I think if I said I did, that would totally destroy any remaining credibility with her being as how I have said I will continue to stand and further justify her doing what she is doing in her mind.
Granted, human emotions and desires take over sometimes. It is hard to be completely innocent for the rest of ones life in a situation like this.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
