I admit, I have a tough time shutting her down especially now that she is venting to me and I don't know why she is venting to me now. It is a little confusing. If she doesn't care what I think or want anything to do with me, why is she venting to me lately?

Is it because I have finally started doing my own thing and blowing her off with plans? Does she feel like she is losing control and is trying to retain it? Or what? I don't know.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...