I think I would try to stay out of the whole issue with your son's marriage (as far as it concerns her involvement). That really is his sandbox, sadly.
I strongly disagree. She is an is actively destroying "everything Gardener".
Gardener's son is entitled to be made aware of the enemy within. God knows what this woman will do with him if he thinks of her as an ally to restore his marriage. Gman cannot step aside on this one. It is one thing for her to be wrecking her own marriage and completely another to be aiding and abetting the destruction of his son's marriage.
Most of you people have been contemplating the loss of the step kids. They are NOT the priority here, their relationships are not in the crisis that Gman son and child are in. Am I the only one who sees this?
On that note, Gardener, how is your son? What are you doing to help him during this time? You have gleaned a wealth of wisdom from this forum and the DR books. He might not want it, but please share it with him. Be a dad and help him through this difficult time. Blood is thicker than water.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
