Longtime coming...

[Awoken]

There is about 15-18k in the accounts, depending on which bills are about to be paid. She's been in charge of all house hold bills, so I don't know how many checks are outstanding.

We had spent over 30k of savings on the home renovation.

I just checked the credit cards. One has only a few hundred, the other has $4500 (her recent MLC purchases included).
There's about 15k of available credit between the two. There's a more money involved than I thought. Neither card representative knew or wanted to discuss how to get my name off the account!?

I've collect the home equity paperwork/checkbook for myself. I don't know if she can access it. That's my next errand.