Not sure what to do

[bluerain]

Thats just a line, lots of us have heard it before. This isnt her decision to make alone, unlike some of the other ones that shes been making. You dont sign anything until you are ready!

The same DBing rules still apply. This is literally a set of coping skills for you to survive no matter what happens with your marriage. Keeping up and making these things natural to you will help you cope and make you a better, stronger man, for this M, or one that you may enter into later.

Keep eating, sleep, get your CPAP, drink plenty of water. If she complains that you dont care for yourself, prove her very, very wrong. Look great, smell great everytime you see her. If you dont want your S to think that your walking out on the family, then dont. Make sure that you spend as much time with him as you possibly can. Itll be good for you, and him.