Quote: And yes, I am trying to find the off switch. I am even thinking he might have another OW
this was a contradiction in terms. if your trying to find the off switch, why are you thinking that he has another woman?
i just had a talk with a fellow db'r this morning about negative self talk. we made a deal about changing the negatives to positives in our "runaway thinking" - for example, she said her husband was really studying her last night, and she said why? is it because he thinks i am not so pretty anymore, that i am too old or that he could blah blah blah. i said what if she changed that runaway thinking to "he must really be wondering why i would put up with this" or "he must be thinking what in the world do i need to do to prove to this woman that i want to be here"
see the change?
always come to the board for your venting, this is such a great thing we have here. we DON'T have to share these negatives with our mates, but can put them all out in the open here - negatives in our sitches will NOT get us closer to our goals eh?
