You say "Last year, she suddenly hated it". Did she communicate this to you at all over the past year? If so, then I kinda have a problem with you "sometimes" fooling with her on purpose and lying about it ("it's involuntary!"). I wouldn't call it sexual abuse, but it does feel like you were violating a poorly-communicated boundary.
No, no, no.When it quickly sunk in that she rejected it (and wasn't just having a bad week or two),I stopped. I can't speak to what may have - and - did happen asleep at, say 4:am, though.
I figured this was the case, but I was thinking of scenarios that would cause a counselor to call it sexual abuse. (I'm also assuming that your wife didn't portray you in the best light as she related this story.)
Either way, I'm sorry that your STBXW is putting you and your family through this. And now she's interfering in your son's marriage too? :wince:
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
