But wait!!! The very next day she tells this to her female IC who tells her that that is SEXUAL ABUSE. So she irrevocably decides to divorce me. WTF!?!
WFT indeed! Pressure? Possibly. Annoying? Probably. Abuse? Give me a break.
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And you know what? I always suspected (without proof) that her father's physical abuse of her may have included some sexual abuse (she hadn't had anything to do with him for 30 years) and he died just around the time this 15-year long nudge-giggle-ML game became a problem last year.
You might be on to something here. But I don't think you should float the idea with her.
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Ladies, am I being crazy, here? Am I wrong that 15 yrs of play became unacceptable, something so innocent suddenly became Sexual Abuse?!?
It had been bothering her for a while, if I had to guess. And she resents indulging you. She unfairly hid her true feelings from you ... until they blew all over the place 100x their size b/c she stuffed 'em down.
You should be angry. You've been treated unfairly. Greek
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