Can I save my marriage?

[Ready2Change]

I agree, but I think last night was detrimental and my marriage may be over.

This thought process is not healthy. Read these words "THEY WILL BE DONE".

I need so much help right now on what to do I can't even explain it.

We are here for you.

When I got home he was in a rage

Protect yourself. He needs to deal with this and you do not.

So now I don't know what to do. He is soooo mad at me.

Step away from the sitch. Do not give him a target for his anger. You may want to consider restraining orders.

I am a mess. I haven't slept in 24 hours.

This is normal and understandable. Go see a Doctor. I went the day after the bomb. It is very important to keep your emotions in check, get good sleep, get exercise and take care of YOU during this very difficult time of your life.

What do I do? I have changed! I feel like a better person

Keep making positive changes

but I'm scared to death that I have lost my husband now once and for all.

FACE THIS FEAR. Until you let go of the control you want over him, things will continue to move you toward what you fear. DO THE RIGHT THING.