haha. Lol. Yeah, I told S he wasn't allowed to have terrible two's either for an also tough newborn stage (surgery at 6 weeks for a closed stomach muscle!), but he doesn't seem to be listening too well. hehe. He's a good boy, but very active, mischievious and stubborn! =P
My heart just breaks for your S. The fact that he just wants his daddy and doesn't understand, and feels so insecure at night...it's just not fair. Regarding about telling H, I think you should, esp if he asks, and if not, play it by ear. If you don't tell him the truth, he'll never know how it's affecting S and won't be able to fix it. He obviously loves his son and I'm sure doesn't like hurting him. Since you rarely bring it up now, and should continue to do so, he shouldn't misconstrue it as a guilt trip. Or like you told S, ask daddy. You can only do so much, at some point, he needs to take responsibility as a father.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
