Honestly, I think with the divorce rate being what it is today, no matter how much mud slinging you do, the court won't even look at it. All they HAVE to care about is the kids being in a sturctured enviornment. That's what I got out of my D process. At one point my own L said, "look, youre getting divorced like it or not, you are, so the more you try and point out her A, is just the more time and money you waste".

Sad, yes, but that's how it goes.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11