PDT, I am a slow learner, but after a while I get it.
She intitiated it. It was driven by an email regarding D terms she wants to which I did respond "No." Nothing else. She then followed up with another email asking me to reconsider using words like "begging you to " and "Love, WAS". I did not respond at all to it.
And of course I did not send the above note. The forum just provided the best outlet for me. Once I got it out of my system, I was in good shape. I have to tell you that I am so gald this place exists.
I will be working towards another non confrontational, non pursuing day today. She clearly is set on this "D" path, so I expect papers soon. We shall see.......
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
