I think a "light" is coming on slowly. You dont OWE her anything. And it's time you take back CONTROL of YOUR LIFE.
Damn right! Be tough. Respectful BUT TOUGH. Time to show TOUGH LOVE Kev. I agree w everything CG is saying. Set your BOUNDARIES NOW. No talk other then about the girls. Start showing her that you demand RESPECT. "I would appreciate it that you dont bother me at work... I am having dinner with my brother on sat. period. " 180's Kev. If you are not used to being CONFIDENT and DEMANDING RESPECT and SETTING BOUNDARIES then do it. She might be attracted to you LEADERSHIP. Who knows. Then you can decide if she's GOOD ENOUGH for YOU.
