I don't apologize anymore. I have finished with that. I have tried to make things work. She has not. You are correct.
I used to think I owe my W my unconditional love no matter what. I'm not so sure anymore. It is something I struggle with now.
I have forgiven myself. While I regret my past actions, I have also apologized for them more than once. That is enough.
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What happened to ignoring your W when she IM or TXT? Dont ENABLE her ERRACTIC BEHAVIOR by immediantly responding. Think YOU are the CAPTAIN of the ship why are you letting her steer?
The conversations start out about the kids and then shift. I just have to get better about cutting it off and keeping myself from shifting it as well.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
