Also, think about how annoyed your W would be if YOU texted her all day long while she was working. You would get an earful from her so why are you allowing it. You can't wait until next time to set your boundary. Set it now.
And I must disagree w/your philosophy about reconciling. In a way you remind me of my H. It is not reconcile or nothing. While this is just my personal opinion and perhaps not the popular line of thought I think there has to be some middle ground to see if reconciling is even an option.
