That would be hard to get over I know. And he does have much work to do on himself. Until he realizes that, I don't see much change in his chances to reconcile with you.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...