It's the healing part that makes me think our separation could be a good thing. I don't think my WAW could ever truly heal as long as she was in a place she felt she didn't want to be.

As for attraction, I wish my overwhelming physical attraction to her would go away! Hopefully, not seeing her regularly and certainly not seeing her naked will help. At this moment, we still sleep (naked sometimes) in the same bed and I still see her in the shower etc - it kills me! Living celibate for a year, or longer sure will be easier without the temptation of my beautiful WAW in front of me.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.