Talked to STBX about this. She was agreeable that it was a smart move to not go forward if it was questionable.
Then she went on to ask if I was going to be able to pay her the $500/month she is supposed to get. I told her I would pay her first before other bills. She kept saying "are you sure you can afford it?"
Then she went on to talk about how she can't afford her debt and she needs a place where she can have her own room. Then she asks me how long do I think I'll be in the house and I said probably 6 months more before it forecloses.
She pauses, then says "well, I'm wondering something..." then silence for about 10 seconds.
I swear to God I thought she was going to suggest we share the house until then to save money...
After a few seconds she says she want's to talk to D18 about possibly living with her. I mentioned that D18 wants me to rent a 3 bedroom house so D14 can visit and have her own room. STBX says "Well, I'm going to ask her anyway because she wanted to live with me before but I didn't have the space in the condo".
D18 doesn't pay rent to me, she barely makes enough money to pay for her personal life while going to college.
I didn't say anything. She mentioned that the person who is letting her rent the condo for $600/month may want her to move out in the near future. Nothing for me to say there either.
Trust your feelings. Remember that. Your intuition is always right.
