Oh, gosh, did you do that? Is that a good idea? I'd rather not have to see her!!!, but if it will help me get my kids, then I'll do it. We live in a no-fault state so from what my L has said in the past, it seems like X can do anything he wants, but she was discouraging me dating b/c it could affect alimony/child support. (Not why I didn't date though!)
