That's because of the serpent she goes to church with.
So make sure you are very clear about your boundaries. They need to line up with your values and beliefs. You will get your self-respect back now and in turn your wife's respect. She's watching you right now.
No coach, "He's the best friend I've ever had. He GETS me."
No way he could be a serpent!
My boundaries are clear, and have always been in line with my values. I've never had any self respect issues; if anything I have a stealth arrogance. I just hope something or someone or God himself reaches my wife. I can't help but still love her.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09