What is it about holidays and the timing of bombs? H dropped my bomb last Christmas and moved out 1/3/09...So..I'm dreading this one and have two weeks off of work(b/c I thought I'd be caring for the girls by myself)..H is home-sort of...physically but not always mentally.
I'm trying to think of some low-key activities for me and the girls since H doesn't want to take a vacation. My original plan, if I was separated/divorced, was for the girls and I to go on a cruise this Christmas...well that's not happening and H is home but doesn't want to do anything-and then complains that we(really he) just sits and watches TV...
Would anyone share some activities they're planning? I could use some ideas! or strategies to get thru the holidays mentally intact?
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
