Well, had a ridiculous conversation w ex last night. He called supposedly about soccer practice and it went into the "why can't you just forget about everything that has happened" conversation.
My son told ex that they were sleeping over with my mom on Friday, and they are b/c she called and asked me if they could. He assumes it is b/c I have plans and starts ranting about how I "rub" my plans and dating in his face.... LOL... Now, mind you I have no plans for Friday, this was my mom's idea. I have never once told him about my personal plans. But this is the same man?? that sat in my living room a month after we sep. and told tinkerbell loudly on the phone that he loved her....
I just laughed and told him sorry he felt that way that he was projecting big time. LOL He doesn't know what that is, but anyway.
He wants to know why I can't just forget everything and let us move back in together. Well, maybe b/c he is still right in the middle of crazy and has done NO work to fix himself, still hasn't started counseling, etc. AND the fact that he just went wayyyyy too far with his nonsense, such as assaulting me in front of my children. That I could never forget. Guess his mind is fuzzy about all of that. Selective memory. MLC memory. Or just plain crazy. Who the hell knows.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
