I think you need to develop an attitude where you would be open to her proving over time why she wants you back. She would need be the one to convince you that your marriage is worth saving and that she has redeemed herself.
But the question was hypothetical. Right now she is happy on her own and it is you that needs to learn to be happy without your W in your life.
It is hypothetical and your statement is true about needing to find happiness without her. But as far as saving the marriage being worth it. I believe it is. But yes, she would need to prove to me that she has redeemed herself.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
