Just catching up on your sitch. I don't have any advice to add, except that I agree with Puppy. Speak with the step kids and get there real perspective.
Chin up. We are here for you.
MO3
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning