If your W asked you to move back in today, would you do it?
Emotionally I would want to. For my kids benefit I would want to. Would it be the smartest thing in the world to do right now? Probably not.
Kevin
I think you need to develop an attitude where you would be open to her proving over time why she wants you back. She would need be the one to convince you that your marriage is worth saving and that she has redeemed herself.
But the question was hypothetical. Right now she is happy on her own and it is you that needs to learn to be happy without your W in your life.
