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Your answer should be a spark to understand that your not where you need to be.


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Emotionally I would want to.



Then your not detached. Your co-dependant. Why would you want to put your emotions at risk for someone who doesn't want, nor respect you currently?


iwantittowork,

I do love her despite everything that has happened and is happening. What is best for my kids for us to ultimately get to a healthy M and family. Right now that is not realistic for today. But you also have to start somewhere at some point right? And if she is ready for me to come back, I would be highly untrusting of her. But reconciliations have to start somewhere and build up.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...