Let the mom thing go...not your family, not your problem.
She will try and cake eat as long as YOU let her. Its hard, I know...been there and still there. My exh loves to be my buddy and then go back to his immoral life. I need to put a stop to that.
Go read my thread. I could use the input from others as well as show everyone where letting someone cake eat gets you...NOWHERE!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!