iwitw,
Originally Posted By: iwantittowork
Do so. If you don't like the way mediation is going, then get up and WALK OUT.
Oh, I will.

Originally Posted By: iwantittowork
I'll never bad mouth my STBXW to them, or my daughter, and suggest you do the same and take the high road as others have suggested.
Yep. Never have. Never would. Never will. If anything I remind them that she is hurting more than any of us know.

Originally Posted By: iwantittowork
Gardner needs to find himself and some peace through this process, now, what can you do to work on that?
I am at peace (though I wasn't last night).
Detachment, going dark, and GALing go into overdrive starting today!

Thanks.


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac