K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

Ok, turns out my BIL is coming in on Saturday at 1:30. So I will have to uninvite my W today. I was hoping to get away with the excuse he isn't coming in til Sunday since he was looking at changing times. But oh well, no biggie.

W called me to ask how D7 was doing this morning. I said she is doing ok. W said she is pissed off at her mom for doing this again to D7. W said her mom didn't even call her, she got a text message saying to tell D7 she wouldn't make the grandparents lunch.

Last night when told about this I sent a text to W saying her mom needs to tell her, not us. W didn't respond. Then I finally told D7. Then I let W know that D7 has been informed and then W was all of a sudden available to talk about it and she bashed her mom and her family. I did not participate in the bashing. I only discussed D7's reaction and feelings.

W said she is going to take D7 to her favorite place to eat tonight. Thats good, but it doesn't make up for the fact that D7 is doing quite well considering what she doesn't have a choice in with us being separated and yet she is still getting constantly slighted by her own grandma and D11 on top of what she is having to deal with.

W tells me that her and her mom had been arguing all day yesterday and then that she also gets slighted and her sister does not. I'm sitting here thinking, yes, but you are at least an adult. This is a 7 year old girl who just wants to be loved and accepted like everyone else.

Frusturating.

Kevin