Sad To Be Back 4 Years After The Bust

[TrentC]

I realize knowing the answer could be harmful to me, but I really want to know what the odds are if I can db during that year.

I can't come up with odds because every situation is unique. You're talking about human beings -- confused, hurting human beings at that.

I can say that my parents actually got divorced and ended up reconciling and remarrying within a year. So anything is possible.

What will influence the likelihood of your staying together is how well you GAL and turn yourself around; staying positive when dealing with your spouse; detaching yourself once you've separated and letting her see what life without you (the new, happier, confident you) is like.